The 4th Advanced Course in the Manila
I completed the Advanced Course in November, 2004. At the time it cost Php 22,500.00 which was way over my income then. I remember being in a registration conversation with my dear friend Nico who - bless his heart inspired me with this golden liner:
"Be a clearing for miracles and allow the universe to occur for you."
So I registered. At the time I was working as a writer for a congressman; doing house bills, research, and motions. I learned a great deal about policymaking on the job but, being a government employee did not afford me an income that can accomodate the tuition for the Advanced Course.
Having been "in the conversation" since the first Landmark Forum in May 2002, I had access to the power of declaration and the committment behind it. I got that being powerful is not deciding on a course of action determined by the favorable circumstances surrounding it. Being powerful is making a committment to a result in the face of disagreeable circumstances and contingencies.
I had no idea where I was to generate the money for the rest of the tuition. What happened within a week of my registering is that I actually got a job interview in a growing locally-owned contact center and miracle of miracles: I was hired on the spot!
What was more astonishing is that the company gave me a contract that offered 30% more money than what I asked, and with it a position in management. I couldn't believe my excellent fortune! Imagine, I invented my career in Training and Organization Development during my Landmark Forum, and I was reaping the benefits at the onset of my Advanced Course!
Just over a year after my Advanced Course, I am now a manager in human resources and the chief organization development resource in my company. Aligned with the possibility and committment I declared with my batchmates in the course, I have registered 13 people from the company to the Landmark Forum and 4 of them are participating in the Advanced Course next month.
As I share this with you, I got what "being a stand" is all over again. Nico did not give in to my reasonableness in his registration conversation and I got how committed he is to my life. A lot of times we get stopped in our registration conversations in the face of strong reasons fed to us by the people we are committed to contribute to.
Had Nico been stopped by my reasons and did not let me fill out the blue registration card anymore, then the possibility that I am, and the self-expression in the world that I am - now living in the lives of others, would be dead.
To the Advanced Course registration team, be unstoppable in the face of no agreement. We are speaking to people who get what possibility is and it's our blessed work to engage them in this joyful conversation.